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A love letter should be very carefully
written. Comparing to other kind of letters, it will be the most
read, re-read and sometimes kept for a lifetime. |
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Do it naturally.
If writing or sharing your emotions doesn't come naturally to you,
you may need to take some time for practice. Go to your feelings
and try
to put them on a separate piece of paper
just like they come up. Take the first things
that comes in your mind. This piece of paper should be the basis
of the letter you will send. |
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Choose the way of
writing. Your
letter may be friendly, funny, lovey-dovey, passionate, sensual or
seductive. |
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Make sure you only
send a love letter to someone who will appreciate it. Love
letters are very intimate. If you are not sure about a person's
appreciation you better first write small notes or
do some nictitating rather than long
love letters. |
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Express your deepest
emotions. The essence
of writing the best love letters is to capture in as much detail as
possible, to express exactly your feelings. A love letter is
supposed to be romantic and passionate - a sincere sharing of your
deepest emotions.
Don't be ashamed of it. It is very normal to express your feelings
when loving somebody. Usually everybody appreciates it sooner or
later. |
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Keep your dignity.
When writing love letters, your should be
very careful to maintain
your dignity. Keep on writing about your deepest feelings but do
it in a temperate manner without overemphasizing. |
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Be honest. The love-letter should
be honest. It should say what the writer means, and no more. |
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Keep it
understandable. Avoid large complicated words
and sentences when simple ones will do. |
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Frame your words. The beginning and the end of the
love letter are very important as they set the tone for the entire
letter. |
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Make it special.
Try to write something that comes from you. Ordinary letters are
boring and trivial. Be yourself. You can do something unique. You
even can write something what happened the last days to you. This
can be romantic, funny or dramatic but in the first place it should
be entertaining and present you in amiable, charming and likable
light . |
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Look at her/his
picture if you like. Your loved one is your inspiration. She/he
is the reason you want to write. Look at the picture of your loved
one while writing and think about
what are the things you love and admire in him/her. You can jot
them down before you start writing. |
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Write correctly. Try to
avoid mistakes in grammar, expression and spelling.
Ungrammatical expression, or word improperly spelled might be
considered careless for the reader. |
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Have dreams. In one of the
paragraphs, share your hopes and dreams for the future you can have
together. |
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Have fun.
Above all, have fun with writing
to the person you adore so much. Think of the smile it brings to
your loved one to find and read this special letter. |
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Include the date,
place and time. Don't forget to date your letter. You may also
include the place and time, which will help your loved one to visualize
you while reading the letter. |
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Sign it. Finally, when you're
done, don't forget to sign off unless it's an anonymous secret admirer
kind of thing. It gives the letter an additional stylistic
element. |
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Attach a photo. Another suggestion for the
presentation aspect of the letter, is the addition of a small
photograph glued to the top of the letter. This allows the recipient
to view the photograph and reflect on you with fondness as they
admire your letter content. |
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Add a touch of
scents if necessary. Spray the letter
with a light fragrance. Spray the perfume in the air and wave it
through the upper part of the fog. Don't overdo it. Sometimes it
is the best not to use smells at all. |
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Use the computer. If
your handwriting isn't nice and readable, it's better to type
your
letter with a computer where you can choose from a
variety of fonts and colors. Fonts can
be downloaded from the
internet or purchased in
your local computer shops. |
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Make
an virtual love
letter, if you like. If you are sending the letter
electronically, you can go more further and make a web page with a poem on it.
You can send a nice
virtual greeting card
or email. Email gives you the possibility to have a
quick respond. It makes the sending and receiving much easier.
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